再版序言 17 Second Edition Preface
第一章 绅士仪表 19 How Should a Gentleman Look?
一 良好的个人卫生习惯 21 Good Hygiene
个人清洁 22 Personal Cleanliness
气味 24 Smell
二 绅士仪容 25 Gentlemen Appearance
毛发 25 Hair
唇部 31 Lips
手与指甲 31 Hands and Nails
皮肤 32 Ski n
身体 32 Body
香水 32 Perfume
三 绅士体态 33 Gentlemen Posture
站姿 33 Stand
坐姿 34 Sit
行姿 34 Walk
四 上电视 35 To Appear on TV
化妆 35 Makeup
服装 36 Clothing
五 绅士服饰 36 Gentlemen Fashion
穿衣规则 36 Dress Rule
日常服饰 37 Everyday wear
鸡尾酒会服 59 Cocktails
正规服装 59 Formal Clothing
特殊场合 61 Special Occasions
出差时携带什么服饰 61 Travel Wardrobe
男人要戴饰品吗 62 Do Men Wear Jewelry?
绅士的其他配件 64 Other Accessories
绅士的小嗜好 67 Some Habits of Gentlemen
关于你的个人风格 69 A Word about Your Personal Style
第二章 商务绅士 73 Business Gentleman
一 走向世界的中国商务人士 74 Chinese Businessmen in the World
语言 76 Language
礼品 76 Gift
二 绅士怎样请客 77 Gentlemen Entertaining
选择邀请的客人 78 Choosing Guests
语言问题 79 Be Sensitive to the Language Problem
食物 79 Food
席间对话 79 Conversation at the Table
酒和饮品 79 Prepare Good Wines and Drinks
座位的安排 80 Seating Arrangements
请客的环境 80 Entertaining Environment
三 出国旅行 81 Going abroad for business trip
准备行李 82 Preparing Luggage
坐飞机 83 By Air
坐火车 84 By Train
入住酒店 84 At the Hotel
四 商务礼仪 87 Business Etiquette
善于言辞的谈吐 87 Being Articulate
寒暄的作用 87 How to Say Hello
你的肢体语言 88 Your Body Language
五 仪柬 93 Etiquette Cards and Letters
名片 94 Business Card
邀请 95 Invitation
使用传真的规矩 98 Etiquette for Fax
用电子邮件的礼貌 98 Etiquette for E-mail
信件的规矩 99 Etiquette for Letters
六 办公室电话礼仪 101 Etiquette for Using Office Telephone
接听电话 101 Picking up Telephone
秘书应有的电话礼仪 103 Telephone Etiquette for a Secretary
做好电话留言 103 Telephone Message
留意时差 104 Note the Time Difference
不要煲电话粥 104 Dont Occupy Telephone for Long
七 相处之道 105 Relations
与工作伙伴相处 105 Dealing with Colleagues
老板与雇员的关系 107 Boss and Employee
与专业人士相处 111 Dealing with Professionals
介绍 112 Introduction
第三章 绅士就餐礼仪 115 How Does a Gentleman Eat?
一 西餐的文化背景 117 Differences in Meal Culture between the East and the West
二 在西餐厅 120 In a Western Restaurant
自助餐 120 Buffet
鸡尾酒会 121 Cocktail Party
晚宴 122 Dinner
三 餐桌的布置 123 Setting up Table
餐具的摆设 123 Arrangement of Utensils
餐具的使用 125 How to Use Utensils
四 西餐餐桌礼仪 128 Meal Etiquette
用餐礼貌 128 Eating Etiquette
上菜顺序 130 Order of Courses
进餐厅和就座顺序 130 Where to Sit at the Dining Table
取菜规则 131 Serving Food
何时开始吃 132 When to Begin Eating
何时该结束 132 When to End Eating
与侍者和调酒师的交流 132 Communicating with Waiter and Wine-steward
五 餐桌上的特别情况 134 Special Situations
感恩祷告 134 Say Grace
当不好吃的食物或异物入口时 134 If you Dont Like the Food or Something Not Eatable
如何解决口中异味 134 How to Remove Smell from the Mouth
泼洒汤汁时 135 How to Deal with Spilling
你在节食时 136 When You Are on a Diet
咳嗽、擤鼻子时 136 Coughing and Blowing Nose
六 做一个精通的美食家 136 Becoming a Gourmand
怎样吃面包 137 How to Eat Bread
怎样喝汤 137 How to Eat Soup
怎样吃鱼、贝类、蜗牛食品 137 How to Eat Fish,Shell,Snail
怎样吃肉 139 How to Eat Meat
怎样吃鸡 140 How to Eat Chicken
怎样吃沙拉 140 How to Eat Salad
怎样吃意大利面 141 How to Eat Italian Pasta
怎样吃甜品 141 How to Eat Dessert
怎样吃水果 142 How to Eat Fruit
西式快餐和小食 142 Fast Food and Snack
七 茶和咖啡 143 Tea and Coffee
喝茶 144 Drinking Tea
喝咖啡 145 Drinking Coffee
八 酒的艺术 146 Art of Wine
选酒 148 Selecting Wine
品酒 149 Tasting Wine
敬酒 150 Toasting
餐后饮 150 After-dinner Drinks
第四章 日常礼仪 153 Gentleman in Daily Life
一 日常礼貌 156 Daily Life Etiquette
在公共交通工具上 157 On Public Transportation
在商场和超市 159 In a Shop and a Supermarket
洗手间的礼貌 160 Bathroom Etiquette
怎样做一个文明的行人 161 How to be a Polite Pedestrian
二 开车的绅士 162 Courteous Driving
在交叉路口 162 At Intersections
夜间行驶时 162 Driving at Night
高速公路上 162 Driving on the Highway
不乱鸣喇叭 162 Dont Honk Unnecessarily
不乱扔垃圾 163 Dont Throw Rubbish out of Windows
停车 163 Parking
在停车场 163 At Parking Garage
三 电话交流 163 Phone Conversation
有笑容的声音 164 The Sound of a Smile
家中电话礼仪 164 Telephone Etiquette at Home
四 听音乐会或上剧院 165 At a Concert or Theater
提前或准时到达 165 Arrive Ahead or on Time
在表演过程中 165 During a Performance
听古典音乐会或歌剧 166 At a Classical Music Concert or Western Opera
手机 167 Mobile Phone
你要提早离开怎么办 167 How to Leave Early
音乐会的着装 167 Dress Code of Concert
五 与人相处 167 How to Get Along with Others
与服务员相处 168 Getting Along with Those Who Serve You
与销售人员相处 168 Getting Along with Sales Associates
与陌生人相处 169 Getting Along with Strangers
六 绅士的财富观念 171 Rich Dad,Poor Dad
七 做主人的礼貌 174 Etiquette as a Host
八 做客的礼貌 176 Etiquette as a Guest
九 送礼与收礼的礼貌 178 Etiquette for Gift Giving and Receiving
送外国人哪些礼物合适 178 What Gifts Are Suitable for Foreigners
办公室礼品 179 Office Gifts
当面打开礼物是西方的习惯 180 Open Gifts Immediately
送花 181 Sending Flowers
包装 182 Gift Wrap
回礼 182 Returning Gifts
十 常见的不良举止 183 Inappropriate Behavior
不当使用手机 183 Improper Use of Mobile Phone
吸烟 184 Smoking Cigarettes and Cigars
随便吐痰 185 Spitting
随手扔垃圾 186 Littering
当众嚼口香糖 186 Chewing Gum
当众挖鼻孔或掏耳朵 187 Picking Your Nose or Ears
当众搔头皮 187 Scratching Your Head in Public
在公共场合抖腿 187 Shaking Your Legs
当众打哈欠 188 Yawning out Loud
频频看表 188 Looking at Watch Frequently
第五章 绅士淑女 189 Ladies and Gentlemen
一 做一个有风度的绅士 191 Becoming a Gentleman
二 约会 192 Dating
一个好约会的构成 193 What Makes a Good Date
约会的规则 193 Rules of Date
约会时的行为 195 Behavior during Dates
三 丈夫与妻子 199 Husband and Wife
怎样处理婚姻中的矛盾 201 How to Argue
分居与离婚 201 Separation and Divorce
四 在办公室如何处理与女同事的关系 204 How to Deal with Female Colleagues
如何与心仪的女士相处 204 How to Deal with a Charming Lady
如何避免牵扯到性骚扰 206 How to Avoid Sexual Harassment
五 性与绅士 206 Sex Etiquette for the Gentleman
附录 Addenda
羽西开列:中国绅士魅力难挡的十大特征 208 Yue-SaiS List of 10 Killer Traits that Make a Chinese Gentleman lrresistible